Everybody can use a little helpful guidance in relationships. Where that advice comes from makes all the difference!This section will provide some help on developing the best relationships you can---relationships that are healthy, and positive!
How Dateable Are You Quiz
Are you ready to go steady?
I feel a sense of relief when I'm not by myself.
1. Never 2. Rarely 3. Sometimes 4. Often
I think any relationship is better than nothing.
1. Never 2. Rarely 3. Sometimes 4. Often
If I'm not in a dating relationship, I feel less wanted/attractive.
1. Never 2. Rarely 3. Sometimes 4. Often
I feel a little bit of panic when I think of not having someone to be close to.
1. Never 2. Rarely 3. Sometimes 4. Often
The very idea of being alone strikes fear in my heart.
1. Never 2. Rarely 3. Sometimes 4. Often
I'm tempted to settle for most any relationship because I don't know if I can find anyone better.
1. Never 2. Rarely 3. Sometimes 4. Often
In my romantic relationships, I am being chosen rather than doing the choosing my self.
1. Never 2. Rarely 3. Sometimes 4. Often
When I am dating someone else I usually feel better about myself.
1. Never 2. Rarely 3. Sometimes 4. Often
It seems to me that I don't have a very clear idea of the individual qualities I look for in a person to date or even to be friends with.
1. Never 2. Rarely 3. Sometimes 4. Often
1. Never 2. Rarely 3. Sometimes 4. Often
I think any relationship is better than nothing.
1. Never 2. Rarely 3. Sometimes 4. Often
If I'm not in a dating relationship, I feel less wanted/attractive.
1. Never 2. Rarely 3. Sometimes 4. Often
I feel a little bit of panic when I think of not having someone to be close to.
1. Never 2. Rarely 3. Sometimes 4. Often
The very idea of being alone strikes fear in my heart.
1. Never 2. Rarely 3. Sometimes 4. Often
I'm tempted to settle for most any relationship because I don't know if I can find anyone better.
1. Never 2. Rarely 3. Sometimes 4. Often
In my romantic relationships, I am being chosen rather than doing the choosing my self.
1. Never 2. Rarely 3. Sometimes 4. Often
When I am dating someone else I usually feel better about myself.
1. Never 2. Rarely 3. Sometimes 4. Often
It seems to me that I don't have a very clear idea of the individual qualities I look for in a person to date or even to be friends with.
1. Never 2. Rarely 3. Sometimes 4. Often
If you score: 40-30
This is a strong indicator of your need to establish a stronger sense of who you really are. You will want to learn how to move towards wholeness in yourself and in your important relationships.
If you score: 29-20
If you score: 29-20
This range indicates that you already have a good start in developing your identity and sense of self worth. You will still need to work on creating a complete sense of "self" that will help you have healthier relationships.
If you score: 19-1
If you score: 19-1
A score in this range indicates an established sense of security in who you are and a confident perspective about your sense of personal wholeness. This should allow you to have good relationships.
